TT-518 -- Child Abductions, but not by North Koreans. Ebiz news from Japan

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After the U.S. presidential election, the first foreign
trip by his new Secretary of State, Hillary Clinton, was
to Japan. This was presumably to send a symbol to the
Japanese that the U.S. values their relationship and not
to cash in all those U.S. Treasuries that they are
holding! Then in a symbolic action within a symbolic trip,
Clinton visited with the Japanese families whose children
and relatives were abducted by the North Koreans over a
30-year period since the 1970's.

Clinton told reporters, "On a very personal and, you know,
human basis, I don't know that I'll be meeting as a
secretary of state any more than I will be meeting with
them as a wife, a mother, a daughter, a sister." This was
the right thing to say in response to a situation that has
the Japanese public outraged.

But there was one segment of the population in Japan that
felt Clinton's words were more like daggers than bandages.
That segment is the foreign parents of children from
international marriages, who have had their children
kidnapped by the Japanese parent back to Japan, never to
see them again. For these people the North Korean
abductions of possibly 70 or 80 people pales into
insignificance when compared to the hundreds (yes, that's
the number the CRC-Japan people are stating) of kids
abducted to Japan.

And while there have been a handful of those North Korean
abductees returned to Japan, there has NEVER been a
successful return of a mixed nationality child to the
foreign parent through diplomacy or court action. Further,
U.S. officials say they only know of 3 cases where mutually
agreed returns have occurred. And yet many court actions
have been brought against Japanese abductors over the

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This unbelievable state of affairs has started to cause
major headaches for both legal and diplomatic agencies of
Japan's allies, and the U.S. in particular appears to be
looking for ways to pressure Japan to mend its ways and to
institute the necessary legal changes needed so as to
support and enforce an eventual signing of the 1980 Hague
Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child
Abduction. Japan is the only member of the Group of Seven
not to have signed this important treaty.

The pressure ratcheted up several weeks ago when the
embassies of the U.S., Canada, Britain, and France, along
with various representatives from other nations and foreign
parents trying to get their kids back, participated in a
joint conference to discuss the issue and taking action
that will precipitate change. While similar conferences
have happened in previous years without much more than a
bout of hand-wringing, this time, the U.S. and the other
Japanese allies held a rare press conference to urge Japan
to sign the treaty. Furthermore, they provided information
on cases where foreign parents have been cut off from
their kids.

The U.S. said it has been informed of 73 abduction cases
of 104 kids with a U.S. parent but where that parent is not
resident in Japan, and another 29 cases where the U.S.
parent is here. The other allied nations reported an
additional 95 cases. As this writer can testify, these
cases are just the tip of the iceberg. Most foreign parents
give up after going through the farcical proceedings of the
Japanese Family Courts -- realizing that there is no
justice when there is no law to even enact justice in
the first place.

For, above all, we need to remember that Japan has no
concept of joint child custody and that abduction by one
parent is not a crime. The judiciary in its wisdom still
follows the feudal "Iie system" (House system) whereby it
believes that the child should belong to one house only.

Certainly, having a child undergo emotional surgery by
cutting off one of the parents is a lot cleaner than the
bickering and fighting that many western parents go through
in their shared custody divorces. But for those parents
adult enough to share their kids civilly, the law offers
only heartbreak and no compromise. Officially, of the
166,000 children involved in divorces in Japan every year,
less than 20% of them wind up with the father, and of
course in the case of foreign fathers, the number is zero.

One particularly poignant case of child abduction does not
even include the Japanese parent absconding with the
child, but rather her parents -- who were able to convince
a Japanese judge to give the child to them based on
trumped up charges, rather than return her to her foreign

The story of Paul Wong is a story that epitomizes the
problem -- that of the judiciary and their slanted views
on untrustworthy foreigners versus nice decent Japanese.
Wong was happily married in the U.S. to a Japanese women,
Akemi, and after many years of partnership, they finally
had a daughter, Kaya. Unfortunately, his wife was
diagnosed with a brain tumor before the birth in 2004 and
this got much worse following the birth. Akemi and daughter
Kaya went to stay with the grandparents in Japan one last time
before she died in 2005. Akemi on her death bed asked Wong
to leave Kaya in Japan with her parents for a while, so
that Kaya could learn something about her heritage.

Wong kept his promise, and after his wife died he made the
decision to settle down in Japan so that Kaya could
continue seeing her grandparents. He left Kaya with the
grandparents while working his lawyer job in Hong Kong and
looking for a transfer to Japan. He commuted back and forth
for a year and eventually found a position in Japan.

After returning to Japan, he found that the grandparents
wouldn't let Kaya return to him, and they eventually
claimed to the police that Wong had sexually molested Kaya
during a visit -- something which has since been disproven
after a medical exam. Wong took the case to court, and
despite evidence that contradicted the grandparents claims,
the Judge decided that "The grandparents would have no
reason to not make such claims," so he sided with them and
awarded custody to them, despite them being in their 70's.
After they die, Kaya will become a ward of the state.

And thus Wong was arbitrarily banned from access to his own
daughter. He knows where she lives and where she goes to
school, but thanks to trespass laws, he is unable to visit
her. Wong reckons one of the grandparents' motives for
taking Kaya is the monthly government stipend they get for
her, given that they are desperately poor themselves --
and of course now they have a small piece of their dead
daughter, so the emotional ties must be strong as well.

So what to do? Wong has since spent millions of yen trying
to work with the Japanese legal system, but has been
stymied at every step. As other foreign parents quickly
find out, there is no pre-trial disclosure of evidence and
no cross-examination rights. Further, there is no ability
to bring in outside counselors and child psychology
experts to testify for either side. In the end, the judge
makes their own decision, based on serial presentations,
with little apparent interest in whether each side is
telling the truth. Indeed, several years ago, this writer
interviewed a retired Family Court judge who intimated
that he expected both sides in a child custody dispute
to be lying, so "evidence" didn't really mean much.

So there really isn't much that Wong can do, except hope
that the recent pressure for Japan to sign the Hague
convention will start a legal review of the current
family law system. There are over 15 domestic NPO groups
who are hoping for the same changes -- since these
outmoded laws also affect Japanese parents as much as
foreign ones. But we think change will be unlikely.

So perhaps Wong should take the advice of an old friend of
this writer, who had a single piece of advice to counter
the Japanese condition...

"...Get yourself another family, and next time don't get
divorced in Japan!"

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Rumors abound that the next Ambassador to Japan, as yet
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You had better check what you write or you will just lose your credibility as a business professional.

"As other foreign parents quickly find out, there is no pre-trial disclosure of evidence and no cross-examination rights. Further, there is no ability to bring in outside counselors and child psychology experts to testify for either side."

These are just lies. There is pre-trial disclosure of evidence and cross-examination. Outside counselors (foreign law lawyers) are available if foreign law is involved in the case. There are foreigners who are registered as Japanese law lawyers. Psychology experts are also available for witness.

The crn website is filled with misinformation.

This author is most likely a Japanese Government Official attempting to state that all of the THOUSANDS of left behind parents that attempted to ask the Japanese courts to bring in experts, counselors, and psychologists are liars. The web site CRNJAPAN.NET is chock full of evidence and contact information regarding the bull this author is spouting. Instead of believing the authors propaganda please look for your self at and contact the fathers and mothers who have been subject to Japans disallowance of experts in "court". You could even ask previous Prime Minister Koizumi who is an ABDUCTOR himself.

In simple,

If the rest of the world is saying you are disgusting, then you really need think how serious problematic you are.

Can you give one or two names of left behind parents who were treated fairly thru the process? while we can name hundred and thousands. Can you?